Kasi ndimwe ŵakuzizipizga? Kasi vinthu vyakulondezgapo ivi vili kumuchitikiranipo . . .

•   nyifwa ya wakutemweka winu?

•   matenda ghambura kukonda munkhwara?

•   soka la chilengiwa?

 Ŵakuchita kafukufuku ŵakuti ni masuzgo ghakuru pera yayi agho ghakukhumba kughazizipizga. Nanga ghangaŵa masuzgo ghachokoghachoko ghangamulwariskani. Lekani ntchakuzirwa kuŵa munthu wakuzizipizga, kwali mwasangana na suzgo lichoko panji likuru.

•  Kasi kuzizipizga ni vichi?

•  Chifukwa wuli mukwenera kuzizipizga?

•  Kasi mungachita wuli kuti muzizipizgenge?

•  Ivyo Ŵanyinu Ŵakuyowoya?

 Kuzizipizga nkhumarana na masuzgo na kuleka kusuzgika maghanoghano para vinthu vyasintha pa umoyo. Ŵanthu ŵakuzizipizga nawo ŵakusangana na masuzgo nga umo viliri na munthu waliyose, ndipouli, ŵakumanara nalo suzgo na kulutilira kuŵa ŵankhongono.

•   Chifukwa waliyose wakusangana na masuzgo. Baibolo likuti: “Awo ŵakuluska pa chiphalizgano mbaluŵiro pera chara, panji ŵavinjeru pera kuŵa na vyakurya, . . . pakuti nyengo na vyakuchitika vyamabuchi vikuwira wose.” (Mupharazgi 9:11). Kasi tikusambirapo vichi apa? Nanga ni ŵanthu ŵawemi nawo ŵakusuzgika nakuti vili nthena chifukwa chakuti ŵachita chinthu chinyake chiheni yayi.

•   Kuzizipizga kungamuvikilirani. Mulara wa pa sukulu yinyake ya sekondale wakati: “Ŵana ŵa sukulu ŵanandi ŵakwizanga ku ofesi kwane uku mbakukhuŵara chifukwa chakuti ŵatondeka mayeso panji munthu munyake waŵayowoyera uheni pa Intaneti. Nangauli iyi yingawoneka kuŵa nkhani yichoko kweni ŵana ŵa sukulu awo ŵakumanya yayi umo ŵachitira na suzgo lawo ŵangamba kusuzgika chomene maghanoghano.” a

•   Kuzizipizga kungamovwirani sono na para mwazakaŵa ŵalara. Pakuyowoyapo vya vinthu vyakukhuŵazga ivyo tikusangana navyo, Dr Richard Lerner wakalemba kuti: “Para pasono mukufiska kumarana na vinthu ivyo vyamukhuŵazgani, muli na vilato panji mukusanga nthowa za umo mungavifiskira mbwenu vinthu vizamumusuzgani yayi kunthazi.” b

•   Masuzgo ghinu mughawonenge mwakwenelera. Mupambaniskenge pakati pa masuzgo ghakurughakuru na masuzgo ghachoko. Baibolo likuti: “Chindere chikulongora luŵiro ukali wake, Kweni wakuchenjera wakusulako waka msinjiro.” (Zintharika 12:16) Ntheura mungahangayikanga waka na suzgo lililose yayi.

   “Ŵanyane ku sukulu, ŵakadandaulanga na vinthu vyambura kuzirwa nga kuti ni vyakuzirwa chomene. Ndipo ŵanyawo ŵa pa intaneti ŵakaŵaphaliranga kuti ŵakuchita makora kudandaura kweni ivi vikapangiskanga kuti suzgo lawo likure chomene,kweniso kuti ŵaleke kusanga nthowa ya umo ŵangamazgira suzgo lawo.”—Joanne.

•   Sambirani kwa ŵanthu ŵanyake. Ntharika yinyake ya mu Baibolo yikuti: “Nga umo chisulo chikunolera chisulo chinyake, ndimo munthu nayo wakunolera mubwezi wake.” (Zintharika 27:17) Tingasambirako vinandi ku ŵanthu awo ŵali kuzizipizgapo kale masuzgo ghakuru.

   “Para mukuchezga na ŵanthu ŵanyake, muzamusanga kuti ŵali kujumpha mu masuzgo ghanandi ghakuru kweni pasono vinthu vili makora waka kwa iwo. Ŵafumbani ivyo vikaŵawovwira kuti ŵazizipizge suzgo lawo.”—Julia.

•   Zikirani. Baibolo likuti: “Murunji wakuwa kankonde na kaŵiri na kuwukaso, kweni muheni wakuwiskika pasi para soka lamwizira.” (Zintharika 24:16) Pakutora nyengo kuti munthu wazomerezge kuti vinthu vyachitika umo wakhazgiranga, ntheura mungazizwanga yayi usange mwambaso kwenjerwa. Chakuzirwa chomene ntchakuti “muwukeso.”

   “Usange munthu wamalarana na suzgo linyake pakutora nyengo kuti wambeso kujipulika makora. Nawona kuti para nyengo yajumphapo vinthu vikwambaso kwenda makora.—Andrea.

•   Muwongenge. Baibolo likuti: “longorani kuti muli ŵakuwonga.” (Ŵakolose 3:15) Nanga vingaŵa kuti mwasangana na suzgo likuru wuli, kweni nyengo zose pakuŵa vinthu ivyo mungalongora kuti ndimwe ŵakuwonga. Mwachiyelezgero ghanaghanirani vinthu vitatu ivyo mukuwonga pa umoyo winu.

   “Para mwasangana na suzgo ntchipusu kuyowoya kuti chifukwa wuli suzgo ili lawira ine?’ kweni munthu wakuzizipizga wakukhalira waka kughanaghana vya masuzgo ghake yayi. Wakuwona masuzgo ghake mwakwenelera ndipo wakuwonga vinthu ivyo wali navyo kweniso wakuŵikapo mtima pa vinthu ivyo wangafiska.”—Samantha.

•   Mukholwenge. Mpositole Paulosi wakati: “Nasambira kukhorwa na vinthu ivyo nili navyo.” (Ŵafilipi 4:11) Paulosi wakaŵavya nkhongono zakumazgira masuzgo agho wakasangananga nagho. Iyo wakamanya waka icho wangachita para wasangana na suzgo. Ntheura lekani Paulosi wakaŵa wakukhorwa.

   “Nawona kuti para nasangana na suzgo kanandi nkhuchita vinthu mwambura kughanaghanirapo. Kweni sono nkhukhumba kuti niwonenge vinthu mwakwenelera. Ivi viwovwirengeso ŵanthu ŵanyake.”—Matthew.

•   Lombani. Baibolo likuti: “Katundu wako umuthwikiske Yehova, ndipo wakovwirenge. Wazomerezgenge chara kuti murunji wawe.” (Salimo 55:22). Lurombo ntchinthu chakuti chikovwira waka munthu kujipulikako makora yayi. Nkhuyowoyeskana na Mlengi, uyo “wakumupwelelerani.”—1 Petrosi 5:7.

   “Nkhwenera kulimbana na masuzgo ghane panekha yayi. Ntheura para nkhulomba za masuzgo ghane kufumira pasi pamtima kweniso kumuwonga chifukwa cha kunitumbika, vikunovwira kuti nileke kughanaghanira waka vya masuzgo ghane. Lurombo ndakuzirwa chomene!”—Carlos.