tuhada munda tuhanu dassda hai ki schoole os nu tang keeta janda hai. tusi kee karoge? kee tusi mang karoge ki school galti karan vale nu saza deve? kee apne munde nu is da mukabla karna sikhaoge? faisla karan to pehla kujh galla ’te gaur karo. *

•  tang keete jaan bare tuhanu kee pata hona chaheeda hai?

•  mai kive madad kar sakda ha?

 tang keete jana kee hunda hai? tang keete jaan da matlab hai, bache nu school vich lagatar atey kise maksad naal sareerak ja mansik taur ’te pareshan karna. is layi har tarha di beizzati ja zabardasti karni tang keeta jana nahi hunda.

 eh jaan-na zaroori kyo hai ki asal vich tang keete jana kee hunda hai: kujh maape kise vi tarha de pareshan karan vale ravayiye nu “tang keete jana” kehnde han chahe gall chhoti jehi hi kyo na hove. par chhotiya-chhotiya galla nu vaddiya banaun karke tusi anjane vich apne bache nu jhagrrya nu suljhaun de kabal nahi banaunde. jhagrrya nu suljhaun di kabliyat tuhade bache de hun te sari zindagi kamm aavegi.

 bible da asool: “tu apne ji vich chheti khijh na kar.”—updeshak di pothi 7:9.

 mukh gall: shayad kujh halaata vich tuhanu dakhal dena pave, par hor halaata vich tuhade bache nu mushkla da samna karan atey lokaa naal jhagrre suljhaun da mauka mil sakda hai.—kulussiya 3:13.

 par odo kee, je tuhada bacha tuhanu dasse ki os nu lagatar atey bina vajha tang keeta ja reha hai?

•   apne bache di gall dheeraj naal suno. jaanan di koshish karo ki (1) kee ho reha hai atey (2) tuhade bache nu nishana kyo banaya ja reha hai. poori gall jaanan to pehla hi koi faisla na karo. poori gall jaanan layi shayad tuhanu apne bache de adhyaapak ja tang karan vale bache de maapya naal gall karan di lorr pave.

   bible da asool: “gall sunan to pehla jehrra uttar dinda hai,—eh oh de layi moorkhtayi atey laaj hai.”—kahauta 18:13.

•   je tuhade bache nu tang keeta janda hai, taa os nu is gall to janu karao ki os de kee kehen ja karan naal halaat sudhar ja vigarr sakde han. misal layi, bible dassdi hai: “naram javab gusse nu thanda kar dinda hai, par kathor bol krodh nu bharrkaunda hai.” (kahauta 15:1) darasal badle vich javab den naal halaat hor vigarr sakde han yani tang karan vale bache nu hor ziada tang kar sakde han.

   bible di asool: “buriayi de badle buriayi na karo.”—1 patras 3:9.

•   bache nu samjhao ki badla na laina kamzori di nishani nahi hai. is de ulat, eh takat di nishani hai kyoki oh tang karan valya mutabak nahi challda. is tarha oh dimag larra ke tang karan valya nu bhaja sakda hai.

   je tuhade bache nu online tang keeta ja reha hai, taa khaas karke os nu eh gall yaad rakhni chaheedi hai. online ladai-jhagrra karan karke tang karan vala tuhade bache nu tang karda rahega. nale is tareeke naal tuhada bacha tang karan vale de mutabak challega. is karke kayi vaar kujh na kehna hi sabh to vadiya javab hunda hai. is tarha tang karan vale nu laggega ki os da eh tareeka kamm nahi keeta te oh tang karna band kar devega.

   bible da asool: “jithe balan nahi uthe agg bujh jandi hai.”—kahauta 26:20.

•   kujh mamlya vich tuhada bacha ohna lokaa nu nazarandaz kar sakda hai jo os nu tang kar sakde han atey ohna thava ’te jana band kar sakda hai jithe os nu tang keeta ja sakda hai. misal layi, je oh jaanda hai ki kis jagah ’te tang karan vala viakti ja group hovega, taa oh kise hor pasyo di ja ke museebat to bach sakda hai.

   bible da asool: “syaana taa bipta nu vekh ke luk janda hai, par bhole agaha vadh ke kasht bhogde han.”—kahauta 22:3.

 idda kar ke dekho: apne bache di sochan vich madad karo ki oh jo faisla karega, os de kee faide te kee nuksan ho sakde han. misal layi:

•  kee ho sakda hai je oh tang keete jaan nu nazarandaz kare?

•  odo kee je oh poore bharose naal tang karan vale nu kahe ki oh os nu tang karna band kar deve?

•  odo kee je oh school vich is di shikayat kare?

•  dostana tareeke naal gall karan ja mazaak karan naal kive faida ho sakda hai?

 chahe tuhade bache nu aamo-samne tang keeta janda hai ja online, har halaat alag hovega. is layi apne bache naal mil ke vadiya hall labhan di koshish karo. os nu bharosa divao ki tusi is museebat vich os da saath dyoge.

 bible da asool: “mittra har vele prem karda hai, atey bhra bipta de din layi jammya hai.”—kahauta 17:17.