Nicolas na Céline bakabugana embera ezitari kushushana. Bakahebwa omurimo n’ihanga rya France ogwabashabire kufurukira omu kibina kisya. Bakagamba ngu: “Omu bwire bw’okubanza obu twahikireyo, kikatugumira munonga ahabw’okuba twabire tusigire abanywani bitu. Tukaba tutakagizire obunywani bugumire na benetata na banyanyazi b’omu kibina kisya.” Mbwenu shi ahakuba kiri kubasa kutugumira, ni bata oku ori kubasa kushemererwa n’obu wakuba ori omu kibina kisya? Ni enki eki abandi bari kubasa kukora kugira ngu bakukwase? Ni eha migisha eyi orije kutunga wafurukira omu kibina kisya kandi shi nibyija kugasira bita abandi?

EMISINGE INA ERI KUBASA KUKUKWASA KUMANYIRA EKIBINA KISYA

1. Guma oyesige Yehova. (Zab 37:5) Munyanyazi Kazumi, w’omuri Japan, akaba amazire emyaka eri kurenga 20 obu omushija weye bamuhire omurimo ogwabire guratume bafurukira omu kindi kibina. Ni bata oku yayerekire ku nayesiga Yehova”? Akagamba ati: “Nkagambira Yehova ebintu byona ebyabire bindi aha mutima, namugambira oku nabire nyine obwoba, irungu, n’oku nabire nyemerize omutima. Burijo nkaba ninkikora kandi kikatuma yampa amani agu nabire ndi kwetenga.”

Ni bata oku ori kubasa kwereka ku noyesinga Yehova? Nk’oku ekimera kiri kwetenga amizi n’efumbire y’omu butaka kugira ngu kibase kukura, nitwetenga kugaburira okwikiriza kwitu kugira ngu kukizeho kuguma. Nicolas, owu tugambireho, akareba ku okutecereza aha byokureberaho by’abashija abayefererize ebintu byingi kugira ngu bakore ebi Ruhanga ari kwenda nka Aburahamu, Yesu, na Pawulo, byatumire yakizaho kwesiga ku Yehova yabire arije kumukwasa. Entebekanisa ndungi y’okweyegesa Bibuli, neyija kukukwasa kwehanganira ebizibu ebi oribugana omu kubaho  kwawe kandi nambwenu ekukwase kumanya ebiconco by’omwika ebi ori kubasa kugambira ab’omu kibina kisya eki wazamu.

2. Yerinde kwegereranisa n’abandi. (Mub 7:10) Jules owarugire omuri Benin akafurukira omuri Amerika, akareba ku omucwe gw’ago mahanga guri kutana munonga. Akagamba ati: “Nkaba ndi kutecereza ku nabire nshemerire kugambira enkuru z’ebyambireho abantu bona abu twabugana. Ahabw’okuba ebyo byabire biri kutana n’omucwe ogu yakuriremu, bikatuma yatandika kwetarura abandi b’omu kibina. Konka ku yamazire kumanya ge benetata na banyanyazi, bikatuma yahindura oku yabire ari kureba ebintu. Akagamba ati: “Nkamanya ku buri ahu wakuba ori hona omu nsi abantu twena turi kimwe. Eki turi kutaniraho, ni oburyo obu turi kukoramu ebintu kusha. Ni ec’omugasho munonga kukwata abantu nk’oku bari.” Obwe rero, guma oyerinde kugereranisa ekibina eki wahikamu, n’eki wakuriremu. Nk’oku omunyanyazi omwe w’omupayoniya, ori kwetwa Anne-Lise yakigambire: “Omuntu yafurukira omu kandi kacweka tari kuba ayetegwire kubona ebintu ebyabire biri ahu yarugire, ahobwe naba ayetegwire kubona ebintu bisya.”

Abazehe na bo bashemerire kwerinda kugereranisa ekibina kisya eki bazamu, n’eki bakuriremu. Ahakuba bari kukora ebintu ebiri kutana n’ebyabire nibikorwa omu kibina eki warugiremu, tibiri kumanyisa ku ebi bari kukora bitahikire. Ni ec’obwenge kubanza wamanya embera z’ekibina eki orimu, mbere y’okutanga obuhabuzi bw’oku ebintu bishemerire kukorwa. (Mub 3:​1, 7b) Omu mwanya g’okugema benetata na banyanyazi kuhindura oku bari kureba ebintu, guma obegese birabire aha cokureberaho cawe kirungi.—2 Kor 1:24.

3. Guma okore byingi omu kibina eki wahikamu. (Fil 1:27) N’obu okufuruka kuri kushaba amani n’obwire, nikiba kirungi watandika kwekwatanisa n’ekibina kisya ocahikayo kandi cabasika okikora amisho ah’agandi. Mbwenu shi yaba abagizire ekibina kisya batari kukunda kukubona, bakakukwasa bata? Omunyanyazi ori kwetwa Lucinda na bahara beye babiri bakafurukira omu kibina kisya omu tawuni eri omuri Afurika y’Amashuma. Akagamba ati: “Banywani bange bakampa obuhabuzi bw’okukora byingi omu kibina kisya, nkekwatanisa omu murimo g’okuburira kandi nkatanga ebitecerezo omu nterane. Nambwenu tukikiriza ngu benetata na banyanyazi bagume kukorera enterane z’okuza kuburira omu ka owitu.”

Ku origumizamu kwekwatanisa omu bwijwire omu bikorwa by’omwika na benetata na banyanyazi b’omu kibina kisya, nibyija kukugumya kandi bigumye n’abandi. Anne-Lise, bakamuha obuhabuzi bw’oku ari kubasa kwekwatanisa na buri muburizi omu murimo g’okuburira. Ni enki ecarugiremu? Akagamba ati: “Eco kikatuma byanyorobera kwereba nk’omwe omu bagizire ekibina. Nambwenu okwekwatanisa omu bindi bikorwa, nk’okuhunduza n’okuboneza Enju y’Obukama, nibyija kukukwasa kukizaho kwesimira ekibina cawe kisya. Ebyo nibyija kutuma wamanyirana juba n’abagizire ekibina babe nk’ab’omu ka yawe.

 4. Gezaho kuronda abanywani basya. (2 Kor 6:​11-13) Okuganira n’abandi ni bwo buryo burungi bw’okumanyana n’abanywani abasya, obwe rero gume ohike aha nterane bucari kare kandi na bwanyima yazo ogezeho kumanyana n’abandi. Taho amani kugira ngu okwate amazina gabo. Wagumizamu kwijuka amazina gabo kandi okaganira na bo oshemerirwe, nibyija kutuma obunywani bwanyu bwaguma.

Omu mwanya g’okwehindura oku otari kugira ngu ogezeho kutuma abantu bakukunda, guma oreke bamanye oku ori. Guma okikore nk’oku Lucinda yakikozire. Akagamba ati: “Tukatunga abanywani, ahabw’okuba ari itwe abakwasire ey’okubanza tukabatumira omu ka yitu.”

‘MWAKIRANE’

Okutaha omu nju y’Obukama eyijwire abantu bingi, hine abu kiri kubasa kutinisa. Mbwenu shi ni enki eki ori kubasa kukora kugira ngu okwase abantu basya abayizire omu kibina canyu kumanyira? Pawulo akahiga Abakristo ‘kwakirana nk’oku Kristo yatwakirire.’ (Rom 15:7) Abazehe nibabasa kutoreza Kristo, bari kukwasa abandi kuhurira bayakirwa omu kibina. (Reba akashanduku akine omutwe oguri kugira ngu: “ Eki ori kubasa kukora wafurukira omu kindi kibina.”) Ab’omu kibina bona harimu n’abana, nibabasa kukwasa abantu basya abakijamu.

Okwakira abandi nibitwariramu okubeta omu maka gitu n’okubakwasa omu bintu ebiri kukwatika. Ecokureberaho: Hine omunyanyazi owayikirize kutambuza ondijo munyanyazi owabire oyizire omu kibina cabo, kandi yamushobororera n’oku yabire aragume kutega emotoka. Eco kikakora aha mutima ogo munyanyazi musya kandi camukwasa kumanyira ako kacweka.

OKUFURUKA NIBITUKWASA KUMANYA EBINTU BISYA

Kugira ngu enzige zimanye kuguruka, nizibanza kubyemanyiza emirundi myingi zitakabikozire. Omu buryo nk’obwe, wafurukira omu kibina kisya, ogume oyeyihemu ebintu ebiri kukutinisa ebiri kukuzibira  kukora ge omurimo gwa Yehova. Nicolas na Céline abu tugambireho, bakagira ngu: “Okufuruka nibikwegesa ebintu byingi. Nibituma wamanyana n’abantu basya, kandi bituma wamanya n’endijo micwe.” Jean-Charles, owu tugambireho, na we akagamba oku okufuruka byakwasize ab’omu ka yeye. Akagamba ati: “Okufurukira omu kibina kisya, bikakwasa abana bitu kukura omu by’omwika kandi bakora byingi omu kibina. Bwanyima y’amezi mace, muhara witu akatandika kutanga ebyokureberaho omu nterane za rwagati y’esande, na mutabani witu yaba omuburizi otakabatizibwe.”

Mbwenu shi okakora ki, yaba embera ezi orimu zitari kubasa kukwikiririza kugira ahu wafurukira, nk’ahari kwetengwa ababurizi bingi? Nobasa kugezaho kuba nk’omuntu ori omu kibina kisya, rero ogezaho kuta omu bikorwa obuhabuzi obwagambwa omuri eki kicweka? Guma oyesige Yehova, oyekwatanise omu bikorwa by’ekibina kandi okizeho kugumya obunywani bwawe n’abu mushangirwe muri kumanyana. Nambwenu nobasa kukwasa abantu basya ninga abine ebi bari kwetenga, ori kugira ebi wabakorera? Ahabw’okuba rukundo ari ko kamanyiso akari kwereka Abakristo b’amazima, ku origumizamu kuyereka nibyija kutuma wakura omu by’omwika. (Yoh 13:35) Nobasa kwesinga otari kubanganisa ku ‘ebitambo nk’ebyo biri kushemeza Ruhanga.’—Heb 13:16.

N’obu okufurukira omu kibina kisya biri kureta ebizibu bimwe na bimwe, Abakristo bingi bakabasa kubisingura kandi n’iwe nobasa kubisingura! Anne-Lise akagamba ati: “Okuhindura ekibina, bikankwasa kukizaho kwereka rukundo.” Kazumi akagamba ati: “Wafurukira omu kindi kibina, noyerebera oku Yehova ari kukushagika kukira kare hona.” Jules na we akagamba ati: “Okugira abanywani omu kibina kisya, bikankwasa kutagira irungu. Hati ninkunda ekibina eki ndimu kandi nimpurira okukihindura biri kubasa kungumira.”